Men say that women are a big mystery, that they’ll never understand the way the female mind works. But when the truth comes out, men are just as big a mystery to women, and the men are the cause of a lot of the confusion. Men might profess to total honesty in their relationships, but there are a lot of important secrets they’ll never tell the women in their lives.
1) Yes, They Are Looking at That Woman
They may deny it all day long, but men look at other women. All the time. It’s written in their genes, the constant searching for attractive females. In fact, when they spot a good looking woman, most men start up a little movie in their mind, just to try out what it would be like to have sex with the woman. They fall in lust, then forget about the woman, dozens of times a day. All this attention to the opposite sex might feel like a betrayal of trust or commitment, but it means absolutely nothing.
Men don’t really want to leave the woman they love, they just like to know their options. Their imaginations run 24 hours a day, showing what it would be like to be with this woman or that. They know that the reality is that the other woman wouldn’t make them as happy as their current partner, but they like to pretend that they could run away and have adventures with someone else if they really wanted to. It’s an action adventure movie running in their head all day long, and they’re the star.