15 Secrets Men Keep From Women

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Men say that women are a big mystery, that they’ll never understand the way the female mind works. But when the truth comes out, men are just as big a mystery to women, and the men are the cause of a lot of the confusion. Men might profess to total honesty in their relationships, but there are a lot of important secrets they’ll never tell the women in their lives.

1) Yes, They Are Looking at That Woman

They may deny it all day long, but men look at other women. All the time. It’s written in their genes, the constant searching for attractive females. In fact, when they spot a good looking woman, most men start up a little movie in their mind, just to try out what it would be like to have sex with the woman. They fall in lust, then forget about the woman, dozens of times a day. All this attention to the opposite sex might feel like a betrayal of trust or commitment, but it means absolutely nothing.

Men don’t really want to leave the woman they love, they just like to know their options. Their imaginations run 24 hours a day, showing what it would be like to be with this woman or that. They know that the reality is that the other woman wouldn’t make them as happy as their current partner, but they like to pretend that they could run away and have adventures with someone else if they really wanted to. It’s an action adventure movie running in their head all day long, and they’re the star.

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  1. Gecks May 16, 2014 at 5:50 am - Reply

    “For as he thinketh in his heart, so is he…Proverbs 23:7”
    You can’t control another’s thoughts, but don’t think adventurous thoughts about other women won’t lead to thick issues later in that relationship. Self discipline is in order – not just physically but mentally as well.
    Just as you are what you eat, you are what you think.

  2. Buster May 19, 2014 at 7:33 pm - Reply

    Not to be cruel or heartless, but this list of mostly right on.
    Most guys (nearly all) aren’t too concerned about what you’re wearing. We’re only really concerned if you’re showing too much or not enough skin. That’s honestly where it starts and ends.

    Yes we’re looking at that girl, and odds are we’ll like so you don’t feel inadequate. It’s not that we’re thinking about replacing you, but it’s the fact that we’re a curious creature.

    We’ve been bred to think that money = power. So being successful for us is having the funds to take care of ourselves and having the funds to potentially show off when need be.

    In the end, we’re still guys. Dumb, short-term thinking, sometimes stupid, masculine guys…
    We’ll do what it takes to keep you because we likely do love and respect you, but expect us to make dumb decisions more times than never.

  3. kentuckybabe1929 May 20, 2014 at 10:00 pm - Reply

    your feelings are the same at 84 as they were at 24 I always wondered. Now with nen I don’t know.

  4. sabrina murphy b. May 21, 2014 at 6:10 am - Reply

    These are secrets?? Um yeah, no. I knew all these things all ready. Not bad secrets either.

  5. Marian Viado May 24, 2014 at 5:43 am - Reply

    lol not only guys think of little movies in their head about these things. Some girls, not most of them, but a few, like to picture themselves with other guys but only for creativity. I do that 24/7 but I’m not sure if it’s because I’m bi or if that’s just me, but girls definitely do look at other men as well.

    lol so we can’t blame guys or anything

  6. Pami Toll May 27, 2014 at 3:47 pm - Reply

    I think the commitment forever is unrealistic although desirable.. we are here today.. we do not know what will happen tomorrow.. give the best of yourselves while you can and hopefully it will be meaningful and sustain itself.. lableing everything is a pressure and expectation that often cant be met… If you are hesistant.. dont marry.. just love it as it is..

  7. Pami Toll May 27, 2014 at 3:48 pm - Reply

    What about just being a whole person.. whats a secret about that? ENJOY your life to the fullest and be who you want to be..

  8. Pami Toll May 27, 2014 at 3:49 pm - Reply

    Drummed into a womans head.. make your own money , be your own person enjoy your life.. dont move for a guy and dont give up the things you love for a man.. SECRETS OUT!

  9. Pami Toll May 27, 2014 at 3:50 pm - Reply

    PORNO BREAK..brings excitement to the bedroom indulge the fantasy~

  10. Pami Toll May 27, 2014 at 3:51 pm - Reply

    there was no facebook 10 years ago..Guys just followed you around to see who you were seeing.. and stopped by your office to surprise you!

  11. Pami Toll May 27, 2014 at 3:51 pm - Reply


  12. Pami Toll May 27, 2014 at 3:52 pm - Reply

    AWWWW..where are those sweeties!

  13. Pami Toll May 27, 2014 at 3:52 pm - Reply

    I dont like hearing all the time of peoples problems.. asking CAN I TALK TO YOU ABOUT SOMETHING BOTHERING ME? if they say yes do.. if they say no..dont..

  14. Pami Toll May 27, 2014 at 3:54 pm - Reply

    Hmmm realizing in middle age you cant keep it up as long.. can you get more creative with OTHER THINGS? THAT IN AND OUT IS BORING.. especially to middle aged women who are peaking sexually and no more periods.. dont be a lazy loser all the time.. put your best energy into enhancing the experience its not all about a penis ..

  15. Pami Toll May 27, 2014 at 3:55 pm - Reply

    Kudos to the guy who goes shopping now and then.. but its ok if you dont want too.. Maybe she just wants your credit cards!

  16. Pami Toll May 27, 2014 at 3:55 pm - Reply

    More power to ya! And its great when we know it!

  17. Chewbacka Grizelda May 28, 2014 at 8:51 pm - Reply

    I have two words for you:

    Elliot Rodgers


    *Grumbles and walks away, muttering, “I can’t believe I had to point this out to them…”*

  18. DHHiltbrand June 2, 2014 at 1:58 pm - Reply

    What the fuck is this bullshit?

  19. gorilla June 2, 2014 at 9:11 pm - Reply

    JFC! I wish I could get paid to come up with this crap!
    Men want;
    1 Sex, and if you stop giving it to us… then we will go somewhere else for it!!
    2 Food, go make me a pot pie… and then let’s have sex!
    3 Left alone for 30min after work to calm down… then let’s have sex!
    4 Someone fun to be with that wants to ski, see movies, go surfing, have sex etc..!
    5 A day without Drama… and for this we will go without sex!! (for one day)

  20. Walter Claudia Albert Morris June 3, 2014 at 5:25 am - Reply

    This is the biggest load of crap I have ever heard. Thank you for speaking for all men everywhere.

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