It happens to everyone and it’s a natural thing: you’re in a relationship for a good long time and, sometimes, that spark of fire just sputters out. The important thing is that you want to keep it alive and that you’re willing to work for it. One good way to add some zizzle to your zazzle is to strive for that spark back; and with these tips you can have him begging for more in no time!
1) Dress for Success
Let’s face it: we don’t always wake up looking like the fashion plate we can be and, especially when you’re living with someone, he’s not always seeing you at your best. But date night (even casual date night) should be a time when you really look to wow him. Bust out that LBD. Or, if he’s seen it seventeen million times, take yourself shopping.
Not only will new clothes make him subconsciously wonder what it will be like to rip them off of you, but they will also give you a newfound confidence (which, by the way, is super sexy). In the immortal words of Ru Paul: “If you can’t love yourself, how in the hell are you going to love anybody else?” Feeling sexy is the first step towards exuding attraction; on a date, or just mucking around the house.
So don’t be shy about wearing those apple-bottom jeans, and definitely make sure you know what he likes on you. If you are putting the extra effort into looking nice, he’s definitely going to put the extra effort into appreciating it.