15 Secrets To Attracting Your Man, Again

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Photo credit: Depositphotos

It happens to everyone and it’s a natural thing: you’re in a relationship for a good long time and, sometimes, that spark of fire just sputters out. The important thing is that you want to keep it alive and that you’re willing to work for it. One good way to add some zizzle to your zazzle is to strive for that spark back; and with these tips you can have him begging for more in no time!

1) Dress for Success

Let’s face it: we don’t always wake up looking like the fashion plate we can be and, especially when you’re living with someone, he’s not always seeing you at your best. But date night (even casual date night) should be a time when you really look to wow him. Bust out that LBD. Or, if he’s seen it seventeen million times, take yourself shopping.

Not only will new clothes make him subconsciously wonder what it will be like to rip them off of you, but they will also give you a newfound confidence (which, by the way, is super sexy). In the immortal words of Ru Paul: “If you can’t love yourself, how in the hell are you going to love anybody else?” Feeling sexy is the first step towards exuding attraction; on a date, or just mucking around the house.

So don’t be shy about wearing those apple-bottom jeans, and definitely make sure you know what he likes on you. If you are putting the extra effort into looking nice, he’s definitely going to put the extra effort into appreciating it.

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  1. "M" May 8, 2014 at 7:38 pm - Reply

    “Take the time to tell him what he means to you”

    Then they complain that they feel smothered, though.
    (They only complain to their dudefriends about this, of course. You don’t find it out until after he’s vanished, because the other thing they don’t bother to do is communicate it to you when you can still do something about it.)

    Men are pretty much impossible to please. I just wish someone would tell us ladies that when we’re say, 12, and about to start dating, so we can internalize it ahead of time and act accordingly.

  2. IMHO May 17, 2014 at 10:06 pm - Reply

    Too bad that last paragraph isn’t included in every marriage ceremony. But nothing lasts forever, and that admonition would likely fall on deaf ears. It has always been so.

  3. Farallon7 May 20, 2014 at 8:00 pm - Reply

    To be honest, one of the things that bothers me the most is when I try to help a woman by picking something she dropped, offer help with the heavy load she is carrying, or open a door for her, and she says, “I got it”! To me, that just shows their insecurities about themselves. It looks to me that they are trying to prove that they can be independent, self sufficient and no less than men. The purpose of us, men, doing this is not to make them feel weak or incapable, but to be gentlemen, to show them kindness, respect, appreciation and how much we value them. So, please ladies, stop robbing us that privilege, besides, it doesn’t mean we are attracted to you. It could, but most of the times it is not.

  4. MrWetherby May 24, 2014 at 11:58 am - Reply

    Did a chick write this?

  5. ellie May 26, 2014 at 3:52 pm - Reply

    why do you have obama’s picture plastered all over this article? It is disgusting.

  6. Tracy Rowe May 27, 2014 at 5:13 am - Reply

    Seriously? Could this article demean and objectify women (and men for that matter) just a little more?

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